The Referral Engine: How to Get People Talking About Your Business

July 25, 2025
  • People talk about businesses that surprise them in a good way.
  • Loyal customers are like neighbors who recommend a great mechanic.
  • Employees are key to creating those “wow” moments customers share.
  • Make referring you so easy that customers barely have to think about it.
  • A great referral system grows like a garden when you plant the right seeds.


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The best marketing doesn’t feel like marketing at all. It feels like a friend saying, “You’ve got to try this place.” Think about it. The last time you tried a new mechanic, plumber, or hair stylist, did you pick it because of an ad, or because someone you trust recommended it? That is the power of referrals.


In his book *The Referral Engine: Teaching Your Business to Market Itself*, John Jantsch says referrals aren’t random. They happen when you build a business people love to talk about, treat loyal customers like VIPs, and make it easy for them to share your name. And there’s one more piece many businesses overlook—your employees play a huge role in creating experiences worth recommending.


Give People a Story Worth Sharing

Imagine taking your car to two different repair shops. One fixes the problem and hands you the bill. The other vacuums the interior, leaves a thank-you note on the dashboard, and calls you a week later to make sure everything is running smoothly. Which one are you more likely to recommend to a neighbor?


People don’t talk about “fine” or “good.” They talk about moments that feel special. A “referable” business goes beyond getting the job done. It creates small surprises that make customers feel cared for. That might mean following up after a service, adding a handwritten thank-you note to an order, or solving a problem before the customer even asks.


Ask yourself this: if a customer told a friend about us, what story would they tell? If you can’t answer that clearly, start there.


Treat Loyal Customers Like Friends, Not Transactions

Referrals don’t come from strangers. They come from people who feel connected to your business. Think about how you recommend a great mechanic to friends. You do it because you trust them and want your friends to have the same good experience.


Your customers feel the same way when they feel valued. Discounts are nice, but loyalty is built on connection. Send thank-you notes. Offer early access to new products. Give your regular customers the first look at something new. These little touches make customers feel like insiders, and people love sharing things that make them feel “in the know.”


Empowering Employees to Drive Referrals

Employees are the ones delivering most of those referral-worthy moments, which means they need to be motivated to create them. If customers are the voice of your referral engine, employees are the spark that gets it going.


Think about inviting friends to your home. You make sure everything looks great because it’s *your* place, and you take pride in it. Employees feel the same way when they feel ownership of the customer experience. Share success stories with your team, ask for their ideas, and celebrate when they create “wow” moments.


Recognition matters. People work harder when their effort is noticed. Instead of only rewarding sales, reward the behaviors that lead to referrals. Create a “Wow Moment” board where employees share stories of times they went above and beyond. Give a small prize for the best story each week or month.


Make recognition personal too. A quick shout-out in a team meeting or a handwritten thank-you from a manager can motivate more than a generic “good job.”


Finally, tie incentives to referrals themselves. Track who customers mention when they leave reviews or refer friends. Reward employees who get named. A monthly prize for “most mentioned in customer referrals” turns great service into a fun challenge.


When employees feel proud of the experience they deliver, they create moments customers can’t wait to share.


Make Referrals Effortless

Even the happiest customers won’t talk about you if it feels like work. Think about how you share a funny video. You click a button, and it’s done. Referring your business should feel just as easy.


Give customers simple tools. That might be a shareable link, a short message they can copy and paste, or a quick way to send your information to a friend. If they have to search for your website or figure out what to say, most won’t bother.


The Bottom Line

Think of referrals like planting a garden. A great experience is the seed. Loyal customers are the water that keeps it growing. Engaged employees are the roots that hold it all together. And making referrals simple is the sunshine that helps it bloom.


If you want people to talk about you, give them something worth talking about. Treat customers like friends, empower employees to create moments worth sharing, and make referring you feel as easy as sharing a favorite song. Do that, and you’ll build a business that grows every time someone says, “You’ve got to try this.”




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December 8, 2025
We made it through Small Business Saturday, and we hope it was a great one for you. But guess what? The holiday season shifts into high gear from now on. Foot traffic gets wild, inboxes overflow, and your customers are juggling a million decisions at once. They’re feeling the pinch of not having enough time. In the middle of all that zaniness, your biggest advantage as a small business is the experience you create and the connection you keep. People want to support local. They just need reminders that you’re here, you’re human, and you’re worth choosing. Here are simple, sustainable ways to stay engaged all month long without adding stress to your plate. Show the “Real Life” Moments Behind the Scenes People love feeling like they’re part of the process. A quick photo of your team wrapping orders, prepping inventory, or laughing their way through a busy day makes your business feel warm and relatable. No polish required. A little authenticity builds a lot of loyalty. Use Countdowns That Build Excitement You don’t have to be a big-box brand to create anticipation. Try a countdown to shipping deadlines, holiday bundles, in-store specials, or even a “12 days of local shopping” series. It keeps you top-of-mind and gives your audience a reason to come back tomorrow. Spotlight the Customers Who Keep You Going Feature a shopper of the week, share a heartwarming review, or highlight a longtime supporter. Even better, ask customers to tag you so you can repost. These little spotlights do two things: they show gratitude and they hint to others that they could be featured next. You don’t have to be in retail to participate in this for the holidays. One veterinarian decided to post a picture of the “Pet of the Month” in the lobby and now all their clients want to know how they can get their pet featured. Say a Genuine Thank You—And Say it Often In the holiday rush, people crave sincerity. A quick post thanking your community for shopping local makes a bigger impact than you think. Gratitude reminds people they’re participating in something meaningful, not just making a purchase. When people buy from you, don’t just thank them. Go a step further and tell them why it means so much to you. A couple of extra words can make them feel like hometown heroes. Additionally, if you had someone who just bought a lot from you (or someone who buys on a regular basis), send a handwritten card offering a discount. It doesn’t even have to be large ( or it could be based on another purchase, like a “buy one, get X% off the second one”). It’s much easier to get a past customer to buy again than a new customer. Repurpose Your Content Across Platforms You don’t have to reinvent anything. A behind-the-scenes video becomes a Reel, which becomes three photos for Facebook and a carousel post, which becomes a still image for your Google Business profile. A customer spotlight or Google review can double as a testimonial on your website. Make your content work harder for you. Share Small, Helpful Reminders Post your hours, gift ideas, top sellers, or last-minute stocking stuffers. Highlight easy wins like “order online, pick up in store,” or “gift cards available.” These practical posts reduce friction and help customers make quick decisions. Ever wonder why candy is right next to every cash register? It’s an easy impulse buy. When you make suggestions or bundle products for ease and value, it helps your customers take quick action. After all, as much as we all love the holidays, they’re a lot of work and any help we can get from others to lessen decision fatigue makes our lives easier. Lean into Community Connection When you’re local, you have something bigger than any national chain: roots. Celebrate other small businesses, share local events, or partner with a neighbor for a cross-promo. Customers love seeing small businesses support one another. Spur on Impulse Buys There are some things people always need more of during the holidays. If you operate that sort of business, consider a “secret” bonus offer that is revealed at the register and they have only minutes to decide. This worked well at a winery. When customers purchased one or more bottles, they had the opportunity to buy additional bottles in that transaction for 20% off. It was a great way to incentivize people to make a quick decision on something they knew they would use ( or could give as gifts or hostess presents). Close With Consistency, Not Perfection You don’t need a massive campaign to stay connected this month. You just need regular touchpoints that feel personal and true to who you are. Show up consistently, give people something to smile about, and remind your audience why shopping small matters—not just on Small Business Saturday, but every day this season and beyond. If you keep customers feeling included, appreciated, and excited, you won’t just ride out the holiday craziness. You’ll turn this month into momentum for the new year. -------------------------- Read More: Building a Fanatical Following with Email How Real Stories are Boosting Business Sales How to Win Over Customers with Emotional Marketing
December 8, 2025
If you have repeat customers, you already have the foundation of something powerful: a community. You just need to ensure they understand that. Not a punch-card club. Not just “regulars.” A real group of people who feel connected to you, your team, and each other. Community is what keeps people choosing you even when a cheaper, closer, or flashier option pops up. It is also a lot more fun than chasing new customers all the time. Here is how to turn those repeat visits into a community that loves coming back. Shift from Transactions to Relationships Most businesses stop at “Thank you, have a great day.” Community starts when you get curious. Ask yourself: · Do I know anything about the people who come back again and again? · Would I recognize them outside the business? · Do they feel like guests, or like familiar faces? You do not have to become everyone’s best friend. But a small shift in how you see them changes everything. When you view repeat customers as “our people,” you naturally look for ways to take care of them, remember them, and connect them. That is the beginning of community. Learn Names, Then Learn Stories One of the simplest, highest-ROI moves you and your staff can make is learning names and using them. “Hey, good to see you again” is nice. “Hey, Maria, how did your event go last weekend?” is loyalty. You can make a quick note after a conversation in your POS system or a notebook behind the counter. Capture just a few details: kids’ names, pets, big projects, favorite order. Train your team to glance at those notes before serving someone. You are not being intrusive. You are being attentive. In a world where most people feel invisible, that level of care is rare. Over time, you will know who just started a business, who is new in town, who is training for a race, who is caring for a parent. That is how your space stops feeling generic and starts feeling like “their place.” Create Simple Rituals People Can Join Community loves a shared ritual. This does not have to be complicated or expensive. Think about small traditions, such as a “regulars’ hour” once a week where you test new items, a wall of fame for long-time customers or milestone purchases, or a daily question on a chalkboard that everyone can answer. Rituals give people a reason to come back and something to talk about. When someone says, “On Fridays they always…” that is community behavior. You have given them a story to tell. Start a Club That Gives People a Reason to Return One of the strongest ways to turn repeat customers into a true community is to create a recurring club that meets at your business. The club should fit your brand and your customers’ interests. For example: · A bookstore or café could host a monthly book club or writers group. · A yarn, craft, or gift shop might host a weekly knitting circle or “maker morning.” · A fitness studio could run a “goals group” that meets once a month for coffee and conversation. · A wine bar could host a “Wednesday Tasting Club” where members try a new flight together. Keep it simple: 1. Choose a consistent day and time. 2. Give the club a name so it feels special. 3. Offer a small perk for participants, such as a discount, early access to products, or a reserved table. Over time, the club becomes a steady heartbeat in your business. People come not only for what you sell, but for the friends they know they will see there. Turn Repeat Customers Into Insiders People do not just want to buy from you. They want to feel in on it. Treat your regulars as insiders, not just transactions. You might give them early access to new products or menus, “first to know” messages about special items or events, or a quick behind-the-scenes look at what you are working on next. Ask for their input: “We are thinking about adding X. What do you think?” “We have two logo options for this new product. Which one would you pick?” When customers feel like insiders, three things happen: they show up more often, they bring people with them, and they defend you when someone criticizes you online. Make Your Space a Place to Connect Community is not just between you and your customers. It is also between your customers and each other. Look for small ways to help that along. Arrange seating so people can sit, not just stand in a line staring at their phones. Host tiny, low-pressure events: coffee tastings, lunchtime learning sessions, local maker pop ups, or “meet the owner” Q&As. When it feels natural, introduce people: “You two are both new business owners on this street, you should meet.” “You both come in after the school run. Have you met?” You are not planning a conference. You are creating moments where conversation is possible. Those moments are what people remember. Share Their Stories, Not Just Your Promotions If every post or email is “Here is what we are selling,” your marketing will always feel like noise. Community-building content looks different. You highlight customer stories and shared moments. You might feature short spotlights of regulars, with a photo and a quote about why they come in. You can show customers enjoying your space (with permission, of course), or share stories of how your customers support one another, like referrals or collaborations that started at your business. This makes featured customers feel seen and signals to everyone else, “People like you belong here.” Suddenly your brand is about more than what is on the shelves or the menu. It’s about who gathers around them. Build Light Systems So It Survives Busy Season Community sounds warm and fuzzy, but it works best with a little structure behind it. To keep it going even when you get swamped, create a simple “regulars” tag in your POS or email system. Add a short team habit, such as “two genuine conversations per shift” or “ask one follow-up question of a regular each day.” Once a month, review who you are seeing a lot and who you have not seen in a while. You do not need a complicated points program. You need a repeatable way to notice, remember, and appreciate the people who show up. The Quiet Advantage of Being “Their Place” When customers feel like they are part of a community at your business, a few things shift quietly in your favor. They are more patient when something goes wrong. They choose you even when a big chain runs a sale. They tell people about you without being asked. In a world where so many experiences feel rushed and anonymous, being the business that remembers their name, knows their story, invites them into clubs and rituals, and connects them to others is not just nice. It is a serious competitive advantage. You are not just building foot traffic and revenue. You are building a small, loyal neighborhood around your business, one repeat customer at a time, and that feels really good for everyone involved. Read More: 5 Customer-Focused Strategies to Build Loyalty and Drive Growth Hospitality is the Hidden Edge: Why Emotional Connection Drives Customer Loyalty Winning Back Lost Customers: Smart Strategies to Reignite Trust and Revenue -------- Christina Metcalf is a writer and women’s speaker who believes in the power of story. She works with small businesses, chambers of commerce, and business professionals who want to make an impression and grow a loyal customer/member base. She is the author of The Glinda Principle , rediscovering the magic within. _______________________________________ Medium: @christinametcalf Facebook: @tellyourstorygetemtalking Instagram: @christinametcalfauthor LinkedIn: @christinagsmith
December 1, 2025
Even with concerns about the economy being on every newscaster’s lead story, the holidays haven’t been cancelled. Your customers are still planning to celebrate. The question is not “Will they spend?” It is “Where, how, and with whom?” Here is the good news: national forecasts say 2025 holiday retail sales are expected to top 1 trillion dollars for the first time, with overall growth around 3.7% to 4.2% over last year. Online spending alone is projected to hit roughly $253 billion , up more than 5% from 2024. Here is the tension: despite those industry predictions, individual shoppers say they plan to cut their own holiday spending by about 10%, mostly because of higher everyday costs. They still want to honor traditions, but they are trimming extras and searching for real value in every dollar. While it may not always feel like it, there is plenty of money moving through the season. But it won’t land with businesses that look generic or transactional. It will go to the places that feel worth it. So what can you do to be recognized as one of “those places”?  You need to show value and create memorable experiences to attract your community’s dollars right back into local storefronts. You can do this by: 1. Sell Solutions, Not “Stuff” When people feel financially tight, they become laser-focused on solving gift-giving challenges. Reframe your offers around that instinct. Create named bundles that solve a specific holiday headache “Holiday Hosting Rescue Kit,” “Teacher Gift in a Bag,” “Self-Care Sunday Set,” “New Year Refresh Box.” Put everything they need together, price it clearly, and show the “compare if you bought separately” value. Build “good / better / best” options Give three price points for your most popular services or gift sets so people can stay on budget without walking away altogether. Put the value in writing Use shelf talkers, cards, or social posts to explain why something is a smart buy: durability, local sourcing, free refills, included follow-up, or time saved. Make the math visible. 2. Turn Your Space into a Mini Holiday Experience If customers can get the same item online, your edge is the experience. It does not have to be expensive or elaborate to be memorable. Try a few of these: “Five-Minute Reset” station Offer a quick chair massage, essential oil hand rub, hot cider sample, skincare mini consult, or stretching corner. Market it as “your five-minute break from the chaos” to draw them in. Wrapping or personalization bar Offer free or low-cost gift wrapping, hand-lettered tags, simple engraving, or custom notes. Offer an upsell with festive ornaments and ribbon on the packages. Partner with another local creative if you do not have staff capacity. Micro events that do not overwhelm your team Think 60–90 minute happenings: · “Bring Your List” shopping night with one-on-one gift suggestions · “Ask the Expert” Q&A for holiday makeup, tech setup, or wellness · Kids craft corner so parents can shop in peace 3. Collaborate so Your Offers Feel Bigger Than Your Budget In a cautious economy, partnerships are one of your strongest tools. They expand your reach without expanding your costs. Try sharing your spotlight. Feature each other on social with quick “If you are here, also check out…” reels or posts. Tag the chamber so they can amplify. Customers see a thriving, interconnected local scene, not isolated businesses struggling alone. You can accomplish a similar boost by creating a list of your favorite holiday things in town including businesses and events you love or create a video of “Here’s where I plan on doing my holiday shopping” and share why. 4. Help Customers Feel Like Financial Grown-Ups, Not Guilty Spenders This year, people are highly aware of prices and tired of surprise bills. If you help them feel in control, they will trust you more. Promote “planned generosity,” not impulse splurging Run early “Plan Ahead & Save” weeks where shoppers who bring a list or spend over a certain amount can lock in gift-wrapping, free add-ons, or January discounts. Make it about smart planning, not scarcity panic. Offer clear, fair payment options If it fits your business, consider buy-now-pay-later, deposits on larger services, or simple payment plans. Be transparent about terms. Position it as budget-friendly, not pressure. If you can, eliminate the credit card usage upcharge that businesses are implementing today. No one feels good about paying your credit card fees, especially when they spend a lot of money. If you can’t eliminate them, remarket them. Instead of saying “there’s a 3% convenience fee for using your credit card, have the price tag reflect the credit card price and give cash users a discount. Don’t penalize people for using a card. Incentivize them to use cash. Teach tiny money wins Content is powerful here. Short posts, emails, or in-store signs like “Three gifts under $30 that still feel luxe,” or “How to build a skincare routine under $75” prove you are on your customers’ side. Don’t make customers think about value. Point it out to them. 5. Use Digital Tools to Capture Online Spend, Not Compete With It With online holiday spending expected to grow over 5%, you do not have to beat the big players. You need to meet your customers where they already scroll and shop. Make it easy to buy from you without coming in Even a simple “DM to purchase,” online invoice, or quick checkout link is better than “Call the store.” Turn experiences into content Film your “Five-Minute Reset,” passport events, or behind-the-scenes prep for short reels. Show your inventory on a reel. Add clear “Here is how to get this” instructions in the caption. Feature value loud and clear Pin posts that show your bundles, your warranties or guarantees, your local impact, and your limited-time perks. People are scrolling quickly. Make the “why you” obvious. Don’t worry about a gloomy economy. It won’t cancel the holidays but it does force you to be sharper, more creative, and more community-minded. If you can show value, design small but meaningful experiences, and work together, your business will not just survive the season. It will become part of how your neighbors remember it.