How to Build Business Connections (Even If You Hate Networking)

June 25, 2025

It's All About Relationships.

Even though being part of the chamber is one of the easiest ways to increase your network, we understand that some business pros can’t make it to networking events. But networking is incredibly important because people want to do business with those they know, like, and trust. If you don’t have the time to attend networking events, there are ways to network.


You don’t need a name tag and a stack of business cards to make powerful connections. In fact, some of the best networking happens outside of formal events (even though our events are lots of fun and you should check them out for yourself). As a business owner, every week is different and sometimes you just can’t get it all done. But while event attendance may not always be possible, networking is.


Here are 7 real-world ways to build relationships that help grow your business:



1. Turn Conversations Into Opportunities

You don’t need a pitch—just be curious. Chat with the person next to you at the coffee shop. Ask your dog groomer about their busiest seasons. People love to talk about their work.


Listen well, ask thoughtful questions, and you’ll be surprised how often the conversation turns back to your business and how you might help. If it doesn’t, you may be able to connect them with someone who can help and that goes a long way to building a relationship too.


Further Reading:

- How To Turn Small Talk into Big Opportunities



2. Support Other Local Businesses (and Let Them Know It)

Buy your birthday gifts at the local boutique. Post a picture of your favorite sandwich shop and tag them on social media. Become someone they recognize online. It doesn’t take much to become a top fan or reviewer.


It doesn’t have to take a lot of time or be hard, either – take a picture of where you went out to eat lunch and tell people about your favorite meal there. Try a new menu item. Visit a store of the first time. You don’t have to do this daily, start with an easy goal and go from there.

 

This can also be done from your business page, or your personal page.



3. Volunteer Where Your Ideal Customers Hang Out

If your ideal clients are parents, volunteer at the school carnival. If they’re fitness buffs, sign up to help at a local 5K. We also have plenty of volunteer opportunities at the chamber.


You’re not there to sell—just to show up and be helpful. But you’ll naturally meet people, build trust, and become that friendly, local business owner everyone remembers.


This goes for attending regular events where your ideal audience hangs out. For instance, if you own a cleaning business, look to attend events where you’ll run into real estate professionals. They are often asked for referrals, and they’ll likely refer people they know, not from an ad on the internet.


Volunteer Ideas for Meeting People:

-         The Chamber!

-         LV Arts

-         Fort Leavenworth Spouses Club

-         Camp Leavenworth (booths, information & a 5k!)

-         Leavenworth County Historical Society

-         Leavenworth Historical Museum Association

-         Leavenworth County Humane Society

-         Stronghold Food Pantry


Further Reading:

- The Leadership Edge You’re Overlooking: Why Volunteering Pays Off



4. Host Something Low-Key and Useful

If you have the time, host your own event but make it casual and valuable. Think:


·        “Coffee & Questions” at your shop once a month

·        A short Q&A on Instagram Live

·        A small invite-only roundtable for local businesses in related (or complementary) industries


No sales pitch. Just connection and value.


Consider even partnering with a location. Check out our dining listings here. Or do you have a location to host events yourself? Let us know!

 

The Chamber is also currently looking for coffee hosts for 2026! Contact us at Office@LLChamber.com for available dates and requirements.


5. Be Generous With Referrals


If you meet someone great recommend them. Tag them. Share their info. When you refer people without expecting anything in return, they remember you as someone who adds value. And guess who they’ll think of when they need your services?



6. Use Your Content as a Conversation Starter


Posting regularly on LinkedIn, Instagram, TikTok, or even a local Facebook group gives people a way to get to know you and comment, share, or reach out. Content can spark conversations that turn into real-world relationships. Just keep it real: show your face, your story, and your expertise in bite-sized, helpful ways and do it consistently if you want people to recognize and remember you.


Also consider becoming a speaker for a luncheon or informational forum.


7. Ask for Introductions


Nobody likes a pushy salesperson. Don’t go into an interaction with the question, “I sell X. Want to buy some?” or “Do you know anyone who needs X?” They don’t even know you yet and you’re asking them to put their name on the line with their network and refer you.


You want a referral to be a good thing for both you, the person being referred, and the one doing the referring. You get the sale, the person being referred gets good service or a quality product, and the referrer looks like a super star to their friend who needed something. That’s why you don’t want to go in demanding a referral. There’s too much at stake for the referrer.


Instead, try:


“Hey, I’m trying to meet more people who [insert industry or shared interest]. Do you know anyone who’d be open to a quick coffee or a 10-minute chat?”


It’s not pushy. It’s human. And when people know what kind of connection you’re looking for, they’re often happy to help.




Networking Is Just Relationship Building


You’re not trying to collect business cards. There’s no prize for that unless you’re trying to get into the record book and that’s not a record you want to go for. (The current record is over 52,000 and the most collected in 24 hours is 414.)


Instead, try building a reputation as someone people trust, like, and want to support. That happens through small, repeated actions, not by accruing piles of cards.


Start with one conversation a week. One kind comment. One helpful share. One coffee.

Before you know it, you’ll be networking without even realizing it.


And come to our next networking event as well. We’d love to hear how your connections are going.


Did you know? Our Chamber Coffees and Ribbon Cuttings are great events to get to know people. And they don’t require an RSVP! So no last minute panicking if you forgot, or if something turns up and you can’t make it after all. Ribbon Cuttings are a way for people to remember you as someone who came to help them celebrate. Chamber Coffees first have guaranteed caffeine, and second, are hosted at different locations each month. A new chance to meet people, or a good way to catch up with someone with a busy schedule.

 

If you’re looking for a more focused program, no problem. We also have monthly Women’s Division luncheons, Military Affairs Council meetings, as well as Government Affairs Committee meetings.


Further Reading:


-         The Referral Revival

-         Navigating Networking: When to Say No

-         Local Business Partnerships Strengthen Communities and Drive Growth

-         FORD vs. HEFE: Frameworks for Networking and Small Talk

-         15+ Creative Partnership Ideas to Boost Customer Engagement and Sales



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Christina Metcalf is a writer and speaker who believes in the power of story. She works with small businesses, chambers of commerce, and business professionals who want to make an impression and grow a loyal customer/member base. She is the author of The Glinda Principle, rediscovering the magic within.

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She is the author of The Glinda Principle , rediscovering the magic within and is currently writing a book for high-achieving women entitled, “When Great Isn’t Good.” _______________________________________ Facebook: @metcalfwriting Instagram: @christinametcalfauthor LinkedIn: @christinametcalf5
March 30, 2026
If you ask a small business owner where most of their opportunities come from, you’ll usually hear some version of the same answer: referrals, word of mouth, “someone who knew someone.” Behind nearly every thriving local business is an invisible network of relationships quietly moving opportunities from one person to another. No big announcements. No flashy campaigns. Just a steady flow of trust being passed along behind the scenes. This is how local economies work. Not just through marketing. Not just through pricing or location. But through connection and loyalty. And those connections take time. The Network You Can’t See (But Feel Every Day) Think about how business really gets done in your community. A contractor needs an electrician and calls someone they’ve worked with before. A new homeowner asks their real estate agent for someone who builds fences or builds organization in garages. A banker hears a client mention they’re expanding and connects them to a commercial realtor. 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That connection leads to a project. That project leads to a referral. That referral turns into a long-term client. And it works the other way too. Maybe you’ve been doing your own books and now you’re ready for someone else to take it over. You know that people you meet through the chamber have a connection to the community. Now multiply those introductions and referrals across dozens or hundreds of relationships. It’s why consistent engagement matters. Showing up once is helpful. Showing up regularly is what builds recognition. And recognition is what leads to being top of mind when opportunities move through the network. A Simple Shift in Perspective Many business owners think of networking as something they must do or conversely don’t have time for. The more useful way to see it is this: You are not just attending events or meeting people. You are positioning your business inside a living, moving network of opportunity. Every conversation makes known who you are and what you do. Every relationship increases the likelihood that someone will think of you when the right moment comes. Every time someone sees you in the community you’re building on that top-of-mind recognition. And those moments happen quietly. In conversations you’re not part of. Between people who trust each other. That’s the invisible network you want working for you because when you’re part of it, your business doesn’t just rely on cold calling and mailers. Interested leads start finding you and wanting to work with you before they’ve even read your marketing copy. Read More: 5 Customer-Focused Strategies to Build Loyalty and Drive Growth Hospitality is the Hidden Edge: Why Emotional Connection Drives Customer Loyalty  Local Business Partnerships Strengthen Communities and Drive Growth The New Networking: Why Strategic Alliances Beat Surface-Level Contacts The Referral Engine: How to Get People Talking About Your Business --------------- Christina Metcalf is a writer and women’s speaker who believes in the power of story. She works with small businesses, chambers of commerce, and business professionals who want to make an impression and grow a loyal customer/member base. She is the author of The Glinda Principle , rediscovering the magic within. _______________________________________ Facebook: @metcalfwriting Instagram: @christinametcalfauthor LinkedIn: @christinametcalf5
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Do not trust the "available balance" on your mobile app. It doesn't know about the three checks that haven’t cleared or the automatic SaaS deduction hitting tomorrow. Log into your actual accounting software or open your master spreadsheet. Calculate the precise amount needed for net payroll, plus payroll taxes. The Triage: What is the exact dollar amount of the shortfall? Knowing you are short $2,250 is manageable; knowing you are "short" is terrifying. 2. Isolate Incoming Cash (The "Real" Receivables). Now, look at who owes you money. Sort your accounts receivable by "Age." Triage: Ignore anyone in the "60+ days" column for tonight; they aren’t helping you by Friday. Focus only on the "Current" and "1-30 days" columns. Identify the two clients most likely to pay if given a gentle, human nudge. (Example: "Hi Jane, we are doing our end-of-month reconciliation. Any chance you could slip Invoice #104 into this week's payment run?") 3. Review Outgoing Cash (The "Can Wait" List). You cannot make money appear, but you can delay its departure. Review every expense scheduled between now and payroll day. Triage: Categorize them ruthlessly: Must Pay: Rent, utilities, essential raw materials. Can Wait: Software subscriptions that aren’t mission-critical, marketing spend, inventory that won't turn over for weeks, and—most importantly—your own owner’s draw. 4. Activate the "Last Resort" Emergency Valves. If the gap still exists after Triage #2 and #3, it's time to review your pre-approved safety nets. Triage: Check your business line of credit availability. This is exactly what it is for: smoothing out temporary cash flow valleys. If you do not have one, put "Apply for LOC" at the very top of next week’s to-do list. 5. Design the 8:00 AM Action Plan. The goal of the 2:00 AM Audit isn't to solve the problem at 2:00 AM. It's to stop the adrenaline loop so you can sleep. Write down the three things you will do at 8:00 AM: 1. Email/Call Client A regarding Invoice #X. 2. Log into the bank and defer payment to Vendor B. 3. If 1 & 2 fail by noon, draw $Y from the Line of Credit. How the Chamber of Commerce Can Help The Chamber of Commerce isn’t just for networking mixers and ribbon cuttings. We’re a powerful resilience engine for small business owners facing financial stress. If payroll anxiety is a recurring theme for you, the Chamber offers structural support to help move you from survival to stability. Financial Education and Triage Check for workshops (through the Chamber or partners like SBDC or SCORE) on cash flow management, anticipatory accounting, and fractional CFO services. These sessions are designed to teach you how to predict a payroll shortfall three months out, rather than three days out. Access to Capital and Lenders Through its network, the Chamber connects members with local banks, credit unions, and alternative lenders who specialize in small business needs. Chamber membership can give you a warmer introduction to loan officers who understand the local economic landscape and can help you secure that essential line of credit before you need it. Mentorship and Vetted Professionals Chambers provide access to mentorship programs (like SCORE) or a directory of vetted, reputable local CPAs and bookkeepers. Sometimes, the best way to solve payroll worry is to pay a professional to manage the daily cash, freeing you to focus on the strategy that generates it. Read More: The Hidden Cash Sitting In Your Business (And How to Find It) Money Management Tips for People Who Hate Money Management A Practical Guide to Funding Your Small Business with Business Loans and Beyond Small Business Administration - Manage Your Business Small Business Resource Round-up Check out these Chamber Businesses for: Financial Advisors & Accountants Payroll -------------- Christina Metcalf is a writer and women’s speaker who believes in the power of story. She works with small businesses, chambers of commerce, and business professionals who want to make an impression and grow a loyal customer/member base. She is the author of The Glinda Principle, rediscovering the magic within. _______________________________________ Facebook: @metcalfwriting Instagram: @christinametcalfauthor Substack: @christinametcalf LinkedIn: @christinametcalf5